The Manhattans – Kiss and Say Goodbye

Released in 1976, “Kiss and Say Goodbye” by The Manhattans became one of the most iconic soul ballads of the 1970s. Written by group member Winfred “Blue” Lovett, the song tells the heart-wrenching story of a couple parting ways despite their deep love for each other. The lyrics convey a sense of sorrow and resignation, as both parties acknowledge that circumstances prevent them from being together.

The song is famous for its spoken-word introduction delivered by Lovett, where he solemnly sets the tone by addressing the listener: “This has got to be the saddest day of my life…” This dramatic, heartfelt opener draws listeners into the emotional narrative of a love that must end. Lead singer Gerald Alston’s smooth and soulful vocals then take over, capturing the depth of the heartbreak with lines like, “I had to meet you here today, there’s just so many things to say, please don’t stop me till I’m through, this is something I hate to do.”

Musically, “Kiss and Say Goodbye” features lush orchestration, with gentle strings and a slow, steady rhythm that enhance the somber mood of the song. Its simplicity and sincerity made it resonate with a wide audience, helping it reach No. 1 on both the Billboard Hot 100 and the R&B chart in 1976. It was also one of the few songs at the time to achieve platinum status, further cementing its place in soul music history.

The universal theme of parting ways with a loved one, combined with The Manhattans’ impeccable vocal delivery, has made “Kiss and Say Goodbye” an enduring classic. To this day, it remains a staple of old-school soul playlists and a testament to The Manhattans’ lasting impact on the genre.